Ever since I can remember I have always had a problem with the opposite sex. It is probably because I consider myself a geek or a nerd. I enjoy watching professional wrestling. I like playing Dungeons and Dragons and I enjoy hitting people with a PVC Pipe that's been wrapped in Blue Camp Foam or a Pool Noodle. Face It....I'm a Geek! I never thought that I would go through the same experience twice in my life but I did.
My freshman year of college I dated a girl who treated me literally like shit. She destroyed my self-esteem, my self-conscious, and my self-respect. I have never been the same since that year.
Fast forward 4 years and I am with the woman who would help me rediscover myself the most. I had slowly started becoming my old self but it wasn't until I became friends with her that the self-reconcilation picked up the pace. I met her while at battle club at the newly named UCM(the whole hitting people with a PVC Pipe thing) and we became friends. It wasn't until she broke up with her boyfriend at the time that we started thinking more about being together.
Throught the entire 15 months of our relationship, she helped me work through my problems and helped me become a better person. She also is the mother of my only child(as of this posting). Even though we had a falling out we are currently working on becoming friends again and I am under the opinion that we are succeeding.
The whole basis of my second Descent into Hell(as I call it) began the weekend before my best friend and i broke up and ended our engagement. She was still living down south while I had move back up to Excelsior to try and find a job. We met for a weekend literally in the middle to celebrate a couple friend's of ours daughter's first birthday.
The first night we are there, it is determined that we are having a guys night out. We head to a local pool hall to shoot some pool and it's there that we learn that our friend Hurricane was doing a karaoke show at a bar in town and so we head there.
Once we get there that is when I first met Kisha. She was tending bar behind the counter and throughout the night we made idle chit chat. Then one of friends got her phone number and I got it from him and left. Didn't think anything about it.
Needless to say, unfortunately, 4 days later, the relationship ended and I was crushed. So, and now I see it was a huge mistake, I started texting Kisha and there were times that I was on the phone with her for two or three hours. We were becoming great friends. She asked me to come back down to Sedalia and meet her for lunch one day and I told her I would. I was excited that this girl who was hot(mind you not hotter than my fiancee Sam nor hotter than my daughter's mother) but she was hot and I couldn't figure out what she wanted with a geek like me. So I started making plans for a day trip to Warrensburg and Sedalia to see some friends and meet Kisha for Lunch.
Stay tuned for Part Two: First Date
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