Now anybody that knows me knows how much I LOVE Karaoke and so it was a given that I would go with Kisha. I had never heard her sing but the desire to do so had intrigued me. Now mind you, we have been on two dates with one of them happening while she was with someone else, but we had never made it official of being a couple.
Up to this point, she had had a few issues with her ex. I didn't think he was going to be a big deal but that all changed one night.
I went down to Sedalia for the night one afternoon after I got off work to go with Kisha to karaoke at a local bar. When we got there the evening started out great. I got up and sang a couple songs and everyone loved it and was enjoying themselves. I was over shooting a game of pool when all of a sudden Kisha's ex walks in. He immediately walks over to Kisha and starts getting in her face about getting back with him. I see that there are a couple of friends with him but also there some friends of Kisha's getting back up in his face. He finally backs off mouthing that he was going to start a fight with the guys that backed Kisha up including me.
Needless to say we stayed til the bar closed and her ex didn't come back. We stayed until the place closed and someone ran inside and said that Jeremy(Kisha's ex) was outside pacing waiting for everyone to come out. The owner is standing next to Kisha and asks me to make sure Jeremy doesn't get to her. I said I would and we left.
As soon as we make it outside Jeremy spots us and starts walking towards us. The owner of the bar comes out and yells at Jeremy to stay where he is and I'm able to get Kisha in the car and drive her back to her place.
While there, I wait until she's ready to go to sleep and after she lays down, I start to leave and she asks me to stay just in case Jeremy shows up there. So once again, I sleep there and of course Jeremy didn't show up.
That was the first confortation with Jeremy but it wouldn't be the last. Little did I know that in less than a week that my life would be in danger and Kisha's as well.
Stay tuned for Part 5: Muddin'
Friday, January 27, 2012
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Descent Into Hell Part Three: Kidnapping
So, once again I traveled down to Sedalia to see Kisha and see the new car she got. I met her at JCPenneys right when you get into town and she showed me her new car. Then she told me to get in. I laughed and asked if she was kidnapping me and she said she was and once again told me to get in. So I did.
2 and a half hours later, we arrive in Osage Beach, MO. I had never been down there before so it was a new experience for me. I asked her why we were down there and she said it was because she wanted to play ten cent skeeball with me. We go down to the strip and go to the arcade and for a couple hours play skeeball, mini golf, and video games. We walk the strip and go into the other shops.
It's getting dark out and I knew I needed to get back to sedalia so I can head home after a fun-filled day. She invites me to dinner and we go to JB Hooks and it was some of the most wonderful food I have ever eaten. It was literally a fancy restaurant with cloth napkins and two different kinds of forks. It was delicious.
While we are in the bar area having a cigarette, her phone rings and she walks outside to talk on the phone. My first thought was that I felt a little awkward by myself in the bar. When she returned to the bar area I could tell she was upset. I asked her what was wrong and she said her ex just called her and was asking her where she was and who she was with. I told her not to worry about him and to try and enjoy the rest of the evening.
We head back to Sedalia and she asked if I would stay at her place that night just in case her ex tried anything. I agreed and she slept in the upstairs bedroom while I slept downstairs. The entire night we texted between two floors.
The next day we head to my car so i can head home and as I am leaving I decided to go for it and I kissed her. As I pull away she pulls me in again. I told her goodbye and I left.
We continue to text and call each other several times over the next couple of weeks when she asked me if I would come down to karaoke with her at a bar in Sedalia and I obliged. I never would've thought that it would be a night I'll never forget.
Stay tuned for the next part: The Bodyguard
2 and a half hours later, we arrive in Osage Beach, MO. I had never been down there before so it was a new experience for me. I asked her why we were down there and she said it was because she wanted to play ten cent skeeball with me. We go down to the strip and go to the arcade and for a couple hours play skeeball, mini golf, and video games. We walk the strip and go into the other shops.
It's getting dark out and I knew I needed to get back to sedalia so I can head home after a fun-filled day. She invites me to dinner and we go to JB Hooks and it was some of the most wonderful food I have ever eaten. It was literally a fancy restaurant with cloth napkins and two different kinds of forks. It was delicious.
While we are in the bar area having a cigarette, her phone rings and she walks outside to talk on the phone. My first thought was that I felt a little awkward by myself in the bar. When she returned to the bar area I could tell she was upset. I asked her what was wrong and she said her ex just called her and was asking her where she was and who she was with. I told her not to worry about him and to try and enjoy the rest of the evening.
We head back to Sedalia and she asked if I would stay at her place that night just in case her ex tried anything. I agreed and she slept in the upstairs bedroom while I slept downstairs. The entire night we texted between two floors.
The next day we head to my car so i can head home and as I am leaving I decided to go for it and I kissed her. As I pull away she pulls me in again. I told her goodbye and I left.
We continue to text and call each other several times over the next couple of weeks when she asked me if I would come down to karaoke with her at a bar in Sedalia and I obliged. I never would've thought that it would be a night I'll never forget.
Stay tuned for the next part: The Bodyguard
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Descent Into Hell Part Two: First Date
So the day came where I traveled down to Sedalia, MO to meet Kisha for lunch to get to know her better. I knew she was with someone but at the time I figured that after my break up I could use a friend.
I picked her up at the apartment and went to a local Mexican restaurant and we just sat and talked for an hour and a half about her hobbies and interests. She said she was a former bull rider until she broke her back and had to retire. How she used to be a stripper in texas until she moved back to Missouri to help out her mom.
After lunch was over, she said she had to get ready to go to work and so I dropped her off at her place and she asked me if I would stop by the bar that night and I said I would. I went to Warrensburg to visit with some friends that I hadn't seen in a while. Later that night, I traveled back to the bar and literally sat at the bar all night drinking Mountain Dew and talking to her all night long.
Near the end of the night, her boyfriend walks in drunk as a skunk and proceeds to degrade her at the bar in front of her customers. I didn't say anything because I didn't really know her that well and anybody who knows me knows that I HATE confortation. I didn't want to cause problems and so I didn't get involved. I left that night to head home not knowing exactly what came from our meeting and worrying about what would happen between her and her boyfriend.
Fast forward a couple of weeks and I received a text message from Kisha telling me that her boyfriend and her had broken up. She also told me that she had bought a new car and that I should come down to Sedalia and see it and so once again I planned a trip and it would be a trip that would change the entire friendship between the two of us.
Stay Tuned for Part Three: Kidnapping
I picked her up at the apartment and went to a local Mexican restaurant and we just sat and talked for an hour and a half about her hobbies and interests. She said she was a former bull rider until she broke her back and had to retire. How she used to be a stripper in texas until she moved back to Missouri to help out her mom.
After lunch was over, she said she had to get ready to go to work and so I dropped her off at her place and she asked me if I would stop by the bar that night and I said I would. I went to Warrensburg to visit with some friends that I hadn't seen in a while. Later that night, I traveled back to the bar and literally sat at the bar all night drinking Mountain Dew and talking to her all night long.
Near the end of the night, her boyfriend walks in drunk as a skunk and proceeds to degrade her at the bar in front of her customers. I didn't say anything because I didn't really know her that well and anybody who knows me knows that I HATE confortation. I didn't want to cause problems and so I didn't get involved. I left that night to head home not knowing exactly what came from our meeting and worrying about what would happen between her and her boyfriend.
Fast forward a couple of weeks and I received a text message from Kisha telling me that her boyfriend and her had broken up. She also told me that she had bought a new car and that I should come down to Sedalia and see it and so once again I planned a trip and it would be a trip that would change the entire friendship between the two of us.
Stay Tuned for Part Three: Kidnapping
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Descent Into Hell Part One: Backstory
Ever since I can remember I have always had a problem with the opposite sex. It is probably because I consider myself a geek or a nerd. I enjoy watching professional wrestling. I like playing Dungeons and Dragons and I enjoy hitting people with a PVC Pipe that's been wrapped in Blue Camp Foam or a Pool Noodle. Face It....I'm a Geek! I never thought that I would go through the same experience twice in my life but I did.
My freshman year of college I dated a girl who treated me literally like shit. She destroyed my self-esteem, my self-conscious, and my self-respect. I have never been the same since that year.
Fast forward 4 years and I am with the woman who would help me rediscover myself the most. I had slowly started becoming my old self but it wasn't until I became friends with her that the self-reconcilation picked up the pace. I met her while at battle club at the newly named UCM(the whole hitting people with a PVC Pipe thing) and we became friends. It wasn't until she broke up with her boyfriend at the time that we started thinking more about being together.
Throught the entire 15 months of our relationship, she helped me work through my problems and helped me become a better person. She also is the mother of my only child(as of this posting). Even though we had a falling out we are currently working on becoming friends again and I am under the opinion that we are succeeding.
The whole basis of my second Descent into Hell(as I call it) began the weekend before my best friend and i broke up and ended our engagement. She was still living down south while I had move back up to Excelsior to try and find a job. We met for a weekend literally in the middle to celebrate a couple friend's of ours daughter's first birthday.
The first night we are there, it is determined that we are having a guys night out. We head to a local pool hall to shoot some pool and it's there that we learn that our friend Hurricane was doing a karaoke show at a bar in town and so we head there.
Once we get there that is when I first met Kisha. She was tending bar behind the counter and throughout the night we made idle chit chat. Then one of friends got her phone number and I got it from him and left. Didn't think anything about it.
Needless to say, unfortunately, 4 days later, the relationship ended and I was crushed. So, and now I see it was a huge mistake, I started texting Kisha and there were times that I was on the phone with her for two or three hours. We were becoming great friends. She asked me to come back down to Sedalia and meet her for lunch one day and I told her I would. I was excited that this girl who was hot(mind you not hotter than my fiancee Sam nor hotter than my daughter's mother) but she was hot and I couldn't figure out what she wanted with a geek like me. So I started making plans for a day trip to Warrensburg and Sedalia to see some friends and meet Kisha for Lunch.
Stay tuned for Part Two: First Date
My freshman year of college I dated a girl who treated me literally like shit. She destroyed my self-esteem, my self-conscious, and my self-respect. I have never been the same since that year.
Fast forward 4 years and I am with the woman who would help me rediscover myself the most. I had slowly started becoming my old self but it wasn't until I became friends with her that the self-reconcilation picked up the pace. I met her while at battle club at the newly named UCM(the whole hitting people with a PVC Pipe thing) and we became friends. It wasn't until she broke up with her boyfriend at the time that we started thinking more about being together.
Throught the entire 15 months of our relationship, she helped me work through my problems and helped me become a better person. She also is the mother of my only child(as of this posting). Even though we had a falling out we are currently working on becoming friends again and I am under the opinion that we are succeeding.
The whole basis of my second Descent into Hell(as I call it) began the weekend before my best friend and i broke up and ended our engagement. She was still living down south while I had move back up to Excelsior to try and find a job. We met for a weekend literally in the middle to celebrate a couple friend's of ours daughter's first birthday.
The first night we are there, it is determined that we are having a guys night out. We head to a local pool hall to shoot some pool and it's there that we learn that our friend Hurricane was doing a karaoke show at a bar in town and so we head there.
Once we get there that is when I first met Kisha. She was tending bar behind the counter and throughout the night we made idle chit chat. Then one of friends got her phone number and I got it from him and left. Didn't think anything about it.
Needless to say, unfortunately, 4 days later, the relationship ended and I was crushed. So, and now I see it was a huge mistake, I started texting Kisha and there were times that I was on the phone with her for two or three hours. We were becoming great friends. She asked me to come back down to Sedalia and meet her for lunch one day and I told her I would. I was excited that this girl who was hot(mind you not hotter than my fiancee Sam nor hotter than my daughter's mother) but she was hot and I couldn't figure out what she wanted with a geek like me. So I started making plans for a day trip to Warrensburg and Sedalia to see some friends and meet Kisha for Lunch.
Stay tuned for Part Two: First Date
Saturday, December 24, 2011
Christmas Cheer
I know it's only Christmas Eve but I work tomorrow so I don't think I'll have an opportunity to post tomorrow so I'm going to say MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am currently sitting on the couch yelling at the TV praying that both the Chiefs beat the Raiders and the Buffalo Bills beat the Broncos. If the Chiefs beat the Raiders, Broncos lose to Buffalo and the Chargers lose today or next week, then all the Chiefs have to do is beat the Broncos next week to make it to the playoffs. Here's hoping....
Editorial note on the upcoming miniseries......Most of the names will be changed as to not hurt feelings.......Only a couple names will be the same because I personally don't care if they get upset......LOL......
Once again Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays and Please be safe.
I'm gonna Toddle Off now.
I am currently sitting on the couch yelling at the TV praying that both the Chiefs beat the Raiders and the Buffalo Bills beat the Broncos. If the Chiefs beat the Raiders, Broncos lose to Buffalo and the Chargers lose today or next week, then all the Chiefs have to do is beat the Broncos next week to make it to the playoffs. Here's hoping....
Editorial note on the upcoming miniseries......Most of the names will be changed as to not hurt feelings.......Only a couple names will be the same because I personally don't care if they get upset......LOL......
Once again Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays and Please be safe.
I'm gonna Toddle Off now.
Thursday, December 22, 2011
It's the most wonderful time of the year
That's right faithful readers.......It's Christmas time again. I am very excited for christmas this year because I am with my family once again. Last Christmas I was in Sedalia, MO living with my ex at her mother's house...........dubbed by me as Sedalia Hell Hole and all I got from Christmas last year was one pair of jeans and that's it. After being with the woman for a year and a half that's all I got.............more on all of that in upcoming blogs.
This year I will be spending time with Samantha as we plan our wedding as well. I also will be working on Christmas. This is something new for me since I have never had to work on Christmas because I usually tend to work in places that are closed for Christmas but so is the life of the Manager. It's alright though because I'm off Christmas Eve and my family is planning loads of stuff to do and I'm so excited.
I know that this probably won't mean anything to anybody who reads this blog except my mother but I personally think that the fact that the Kansas City Chiefs still have a chance to make the playoffs with a current record of 6-8 is astounding. Although the chance is very slim and all the planets need to align correctly for it to happen but it's still a possibility. YAY!!!!
My daughter Alayna is turning 3 this year and it will be the first time that I am around for her birthday and I couldn't be more excited. Her mother and I are getting along great and becoming the friends that we were before we ever got together and I am very thankful for that. Her husband is a great guy and getting ready to join the Air Force which I think is great. I am a huge supporter of our military. It was funny but she sent me a text with the strange thought that if he was assigned to the base in Knob Noster, MO that she could start battling in the Battle Club in Warrensburg again if they still had it. I had to laugh at that mainly on the fact that I had the EXACT SAME THOUGHT.
COMING ATTRACTIONS!!!!!!!!
In upcoming blogs I will be telling a story called "Descent Into Hell" which will be a multi-part series about everything I went through with my ex.
Until then, I hope everyone has a merry christmas and a happy new year. Be safe in the upcoming year(Remember only 364 days left until the end of the world, or so they say)
Tootles!
This year I will be spending time with Samantha as we plan our wedding as well. I also will be working on Christmas. This is something new for me since I have never had to work on Christmas because I usually tend to work in places that are closed for Christmas but so is the life of the Manager. It's alright though because I'm off Christmas Eve and my family is planning loads of stuff to do and I'm so excited.
I know that this probably won't mean anything to anybody who reads this blog except my mother but I personally think that the fact that the Kansas City Chiefs still have a chance to make the playoffs with a current record of 6-8 is astounding. Although the chance is very slim and all the planets need to align correctly for it to happen but it's still a possibility. YAY!!!!
My daughter Alayna is turning 3 this year and it will be the first time that I am around for her birthday and I couldn't be more excited. Her mother and I are getting along great and becoming the friends that we were before we ever got together and I am very thankful for that. Her husband is a great guy and getting ready to join the Air Force which I think is great. I am a huge supporter of our military. It was funny but she sent me a text with the strange thought that if he was assigned to the base in Knob Noster, MO that she could start battling in the Battle Club in Warrensburg again if they still had it. I had to laugh at that mainly on the fact that I had the EXACT SAME THOUGHT.
COMING ATTRACTIONS!!!!!!!!
In upcoming blogs I will be telling a story called "Descent Into Hell" which will be a multi-part series about everything I went through with my ex.
Until then, I hope everyone has a merry christmas and a happy new year. Be safe in the upcoming year(Remember only 364 days left until the end of the world, or so they say)
Tootles!
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Update Time
I can't believe it's been almost a month since I wrote in my blog so here it goes....
Dial M for Murder is over and I was very pleased with the finished product. There were times I kept thinking "What the hell did I get myself into?" but in the end, it all worked out. I am currently working on a Reader's Theatre production of "A Christmas Carol," in which I play several characters including Marley's Ghost and all three ghosts of Christmas. Stay tuned to the blog for more updates on that.
Samantha arrived here on October 30, and I am so glad she is here. Plus.........I PROPOSED!!!! So sometime in June, Samantha and I will be married. I love her so much and I know she is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with.
I am currently playing with some ideas on a new script but I'm having a little trouble with it but hopefully I'll figure it out.
That's all for now. Stay tuned. Same website......probably different time.
Dial M for Murder is over and I was very pleased with the finished product. There were times I kept thinking "What the hell did I get myself into?" but in the end, it all worked out. I am currently working on a Reader's Theatre production of "A Christmas Carol," in which I play several characters including Marley's Ghost and all three ghosts of Christmas. Stay tuned to the blog for more updates on that.
Samantha arrived here on October 30, and I am so glad she is here. Plus.........I PROPOSED!!!! So sometime in June, Samantha and I will be married. I love her so much and I know she is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with.
I am currently playing with some ideas on a new script but I'm having a little trouble with it but hopefully I'll figure it out.
That's all for now. Stay tuned. Same website......probably different time.
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